My wife and I are active in several groups that are pro-polyamory and sex positive, and we have agreements on safer sex. Mostly we don't play...
What a great game! VoT is a genius for encouraging us to spread love! Awesome idea!
Have you thought about having another couple in your bed, making love next to you, with boundaries that would be comfortable for you? For...
LOL! Nice fantasy, Mike! Dream on!
Even marriage between first cousins is allowed in 20 states. But it's true that the risk of birth defects goes up with first cousins. The...
Do you feel the same way about kissing? You know, the flu is much more common than most STDs, and I think you're more likely to get it and spread...
Karen, sorry to hear that about New Orleans. I've never been there, but I was encouraged by the fact that a place existed where flashing and...
There is no "should" about feelings. You feel how you feel. Now, some women feel guilty if they don't want to have sex and their partners...
I love a happy ending to stories like that.
So how did it go? My sweetie is on a first date right now, and I expect they will have a hot time together.
The nice thing about growing older is that my appreciation of womens' beauty grows. That is, I still appreciate the beauty of a young woman, but...
I know plenty of older women who had sex with many people when they were young. They all seem happy and they have fond memories of their younger...
Genesisposeur, you seem like a good guy. There's nothing wrong with wanting kinky sex, and nothing wrong with wanting more than one lover. Keep...
If we're talking about what you need to survive, you are correct. It's all about choice. If you want to die, you don't even need air or water or...
Whether something is a "need" depends on what you need it *for*. To drive a nail, I need a hammer. I don't just want a hammer; if I don't have a...
In my experience, it is important in a threesome to have space for people to talk if they need to, to speak up if they feel left out or jealous...
That is why I wear a hat!
True. My point is that the term "polyamory" is very new, and used different ways by different people, in different contexts. If the Northern...
You're right, Tom, cheating is not poly. To me, the most useful definition of polyamory is "ethical non-monogamy." You can be in a monogamous...
VH, you remind me of my 85-year-old father criticizing homosexuals for misusing the term "gay." It means "happy," not "homosexual," goddammit!...
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