Ah ok, got it. Maybe they're feeling pressure to perform? Have you tried "taking control of the situation"? Telling them they're not allowed to...
Hmmm, I'm guessing if its a virgin first time thing then alcohol might have been involved... Brewers droop perhaps? PS: If you're married now why...
I used to watch DS9, always found it a bit of a disappointment after NextGen. Odo the shapeshifter was cool though. Did they ever make a film of it?
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