Hey guys, I have been with my gf 4 months and everything is great bar from the sex. I have to initiate most times, and it is a few times per week, sometimes once a week but sometimes can be none(but she was having sleeping troubles). It seems hard to pleasure her, she said shes not loud but sometimes make her moan a little, but the thing is I cant seem to make her orgasm, I can make her cum but thats it. I try, come here motion with fingers on the g spot, then she said she needs a wee or that it will hurt. I play with her clit for a few minutes maybe less and she says it feels funny and laughs and said its too sensitive now...wtf? She doesnt like being licked down there, how on earth can I make her orgasm or pleasure her lol its really getting to me. How can I also increase sexual frequency and her initiate it, I think she has a few times in the past but not compared to what I have. When penetrating I go quite fast and hard and she likes it, but just cant seem to do what I need to! I tried speaking to her also, she doesnt know whats wrong with her etc. Ive not had trouble in the past.........
Maybe you need to find someone who is as sexual as you are. Maybe you need to buy some vibrating toys and help her experiment with them.
