Does Anyone Else?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by curious84, Aug 15, 2014.

  1. curious84

    curious84 Guest

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    Since someone is an ass and can't offer constructive advice, I am deleting this
     
  2. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    I wish all the best to your wife. I hope she finds a nice, real man in the future.
     
  3. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    What was your question?

    Being married and thinking of tons of other woman?
    So what....Married men look at Playboy and the like, etc....it is only biological reactions....and nothing more.....to think that a man won't ever look at another female and think of sex is unrealisitc expectation...but acting on that is something you and your wife need to work out......and whatever is between you and your wife, right?

    I have always thought there are 3 ways of connecting with someone...intellectually....you connect in the head....emotionally...you connect in the heart and sexually...you connect that way...The sexual connection seems more common and easier.......

    I have to connect with someone the first two ways first before I can even think of the sexual way, but that is just me.....and nothing wrong with you or what you want, as long as you are honest with yourself and your partner.
     
  4. Piaf

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    He constantly looks at other women and is being whiny about his poor wife not wanting to bring a third woman in their bed.
    Oh and his wife once almost left him because he admitted being attracted to his female cousin.
     
  5. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I don't blame his wife...a third person in bed?...no thank you, would be my response as well....seems to be many guys fantasy, though.....I have read that a lot...so it is not uncommon a thought or anything wrong with the fantasy....

    just not for me or the way I feel and think about things....

    I think respect and real love is rare..but worth waiting for, too.....Piaf. I hope you get that some day.
     
  6. Piaf

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    Thanks. I wish you the same :)
     
  7. Moonglow181

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    Thank you.....Stan here gives me love and respect, but there is nothing sexual....I guess I rather have that then something just sexual....but ideally, all 3 connections would be nice...but that just may be an impossible dream....but worth waiting for and reaching for and dreaming for... :)

    Whatever is meant to be will be, too and vice versa.....

    damn, I cannot type worth shit....lol
     
  8. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    piaf are you being an ass....lol.....awesome....finally someone else being an ass and not me:)


    poor fuck married too soon...you are supposed to find out your partners sexual preferences BEFORE you tie the knot ........bad mistake

    having said that....3somes are awkward unless you both are really sexual types.....you'll just be dissapointed
     
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  9. Moonglow181

    Moonglow181 Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    that would be the head connection....knowing someone......knowing their preferences.....etc.....and what they believe and stand for. Too many times the sexual chemistry is mistaken for love. I think being in love is what I meant by a dream worth waiting for, for me anyway. I do not think I ever have been. Sure, I have lots of crushes..and have loved people for who they are.

    Stan is older than me, so I feel like I am living with my dad here...lol
    He was never a sexual animal, anyway. I guess he sowed all of those wild oats before even meeting me.
    He is more like my mom, come to think of it..... :)
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    that does sound like me, but i didn't even post in this thread yet.
     
  11. Doctor Dave

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    Why would you be married to someone if you didn't like them in the first place? Do you know how easy it is to get a divorce? Take a trip down to the courthouse, or you could probably even do it online. You don't even need a lawyer, it's easy as fuck and the clerk can help you with any procedures you might have questions about. I hope you signed a prenuptial.
     

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