Ok I said no

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Lodog, Jul 28, 2014.

  1. Lodog

    Lodog ¿

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    My woman wanted to give me a rim job a couple of weeks ago and I said no. What the fuck? At the time I couldn't remember what one was. She's a great girl, but a freak in bed. I'm all about sex. I'll fuck all day if I can, but I've never really done kinky stuff.

    Don't know where I want to go with this.
     
  2. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    What did she say or do?
     
  3. Lodog

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    We got a jacuzzi suite at a hotel and had been going hard at it for hours. In the heat of the moment she wanted to give me a rim job and I politely declined by saying it would be way more awesome if I got head.
     
  4. Lodog

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    Honestly she is really wanting to start doing all this stuff and I'm trying to keep up. My libido is fan fucking tastic, but this woman wears me out.
     
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  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    She just wants to lick your butt hole and or tease it with her fingers. =p
    You don't need to push back. ;)
     
  6. Lodog

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    I'm all about give and take. I don't want her to do anything I may not be ready to give back.
     
  7. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    Why would you decline that offer?? had you recently eaten taco bell or something?
     
  8. Lodog

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    Because she'd already got me off 4 times in about 2 hours and I was tired.
    This woman doesn't stop. It just wasn't the right time. I've never had such a sex crazed woman. And she's so sweet and beautiful. I just feel intimidated maybe. I used to think I knew what was up, but I've learned more in a year than I had in the 15 previous since I've been Sexually active.
     
  9. Lodog

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    I guess in hindsight I could have made a more intelligent thread in relation to the situation I find myself in. I'll do that tomorrow. I've got a lot on my mind with this woman and I could actually use some opinions from some of my friends on here.
     
  10. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Well first off is get some sleep.


    And maybe perhaps just come clean that you wouldn't mind receiving a rim job, but you really refused because you know you couldn't return the same act if she asked for one and you felt guilty about that, so you closed the opportunity.
     
  11. silk896

    silk896 Member

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    Interesting that so many posts like this are about a guy wanting to push his lady into doing something she doesn't want to do/
    Almost unanimously the advice is that "it is her body, she has the right to say no and that wish should be respected."

    In your case, the roles are reversed, but I don't really see any difference.
    It is your body - you have the right to refuse to do anything you feel uncomfortable with. I am sure your lady will respect that wish.
     
  12. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I wouldn't let someone rim me even if i had a stoma.
     
  13. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    So, in other words, you are saying, he's a big girl
     
  14. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Agreed.
     
  15. Sammyaza

    Sammyaza Guest

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    Op. A few years ago I was in the same position with my gf at the time and said no at first . She kept wanting too and I finally said ok and it was awesome. I was very surprised. Im tellin u, do it. Its awesome
     
  16. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Beeeeecause being in a situation where you carry around a bag that collects your poo is when girls are most likely to throw themselves at you and offer a rimjob?
     
  17. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    It's nice.... but it's something that I personally could only see liking with one particular person--because I gotta be relaxed and trusting w person. Meaning if I was dating someone that beginning or something I prolly wouldn't want them to go there.. otherwise... :)
     
  18. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Girls love a pink anus.
     
  19. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    How nice of her to ask I would never have thought of such a thing
     
  20. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    yea.... right
     

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