Sexting

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by NikeGirl, Jul 17, 2013.

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  1. NikeGirl

    NikeGirl Member

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    For any one that doesn't know... Sexting is sending sexually explicit messages and/or photographs, usually between boyfriends and girlfriends or chat partners. What do you think about sexting?

    Personally, I love sexting. I am a little shy about sending nude photos of myself, but I love getting nude photos from guys. I like looking at real photos of real guys, rather than porn off the internet.
     
  2. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    interesting
     
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  3. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    But I got one more great pic :daisy:
     
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  5. nz male

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    I sent a txt to a woman I work with the other day & asked if she knew what the words were that are used when a guy gets all his pubic hair wax / shaven off & what a woman's version of it was also known as.
    She' s not familiar with the words I used & I ended up txting her the real meaning of them. She now has 2 new words to add to her English language - she's an ex overseas person.
    I will be chatting at work much later today with her & will see what she mentions.
    She is a sexy woman with a flirty & a humourous nature. She can handle my sense of humour thou. She's married as well.
     
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  6. kairilove

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    I am not that big a fan of sexting, but I am certainly not above using a strategic picture to demonstrate the urgency of a situation to some of my closer FWB's :devil:
     
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  7. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

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    My phone doesn't have a camera but sometimes it would be useful to have one.
     
  8. Fun_couple

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    i have done it. so many people have. its dangerous cause you never know who else is going to see it. i have bitten by that before too. It's such a rush to wait for that picture to download though when you get a text from a hot flirty friend 100s of miles away. :)
     
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    I enjoy sexting but have only exchanged a few photos, only with people I have gotten to know really well and trust, most people are shy about exchanging photos but I have had a few women initiate the exchange. Most of all I enjoy sexting, having sex in text or voice chat with someone in Second Life while your avatars are having sex. It adds a large degree of realism and enjoyment having the visual stimulation while both of you are masterbating. Even better is when you can both use voice chat so your hands are free to pleasure yourselves and mimic what the other person is doing with you and you can hear the other persons moans and groans.
     
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  10. monkjr

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    That part of second life actually sounds pretty fun. I might get into that, as long as no real pics are exchanged.

    I'm against sexting in real life though, simply because I know how bad cyber security really is.
     
  11. NikeGirl

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    I hope it don't sound too weird, but I collect penis photos. I have a file from about 10 different guys that I have chatted with online. A couple of them I wish I could meet in person... LOL.
     
  12. creampie00

    creampie00 If you can't DODGE it....RAM it!

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    HAHA, you silly thing.

    I got rid of my texting option b/c of an outrageous phone bill but when I did have texting, I did alot of sexting. I had some cock photos and when I got a new phone, the man at the counter transferred all my pics onto my new phone...seeing the array of cocks I had saved....hmmmm, no wonder he asked if he could call me :)
     
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  13. Hemi_Duster

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    I really really like sexting, it is such a turn on for me, and just like you said, I prefer looking at real pics than fake porn.
     
  14. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Sexting is also useful when you're in a long distance relationship. It is true that cyber security is lacking, but when two people are romantically involved with each other, at one point in their interaction things may become sexual. For a lot of couples, it's just inevitable, and is essentially a healthy thing. It certainly is one of the aspects that make my relationship with my Significant Other exciting. :)
     
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  15. monkjr

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    Which is why I just recommend instant video chatting services. Or taking of those types of photos BEFORE someone leaves so sending them digitally and having them in the CLOUD (or server) that could be hacked isn't an issue.

    Dirty conversations on the phone or suggestive texts, with a significant other fine.

    But anything depicting the body, especially the face, and sent digitally I am against and strongly recommend that nobody do it unless they just don't care about the consequences.

    LIKE:

    (Which if you're a minor, and you sext, includes obtaining the sex offender label, and the legal charge that you produced child pornography, even if the pictures are of yourself, and possibly jailtime, and the fact of being passed over jobs because you have to have that legal label)

    I doubt the teens of today KNOW these things before they sext to whomever they're interested in. Adults also need to know these things too in the case they are flirting with someone they haven't ever met in person online, and oops, you just sexted a minor....

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    I've given my reasons, I'd like to see a rebuttal from someone in this thread.
     
  16. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    I don't know, services like Skype are probably about as (un)safe as sexting via phone due to the recent, disturbing revelation about the PRISM program. The reality, however, is that these IM services are pretty much the only option for couples who live thousands of miles apart from their partners. Besides, with instant video chatting, you also have the issue of cappers recording the cam feed. They don't just record cam chat sites, they also record IM cams.

    Different countries have different laws against this kind of stuff. Some places have harsher laws, while other places have more lax laws. For instance, I remember buying a porn magazine that featured a 16 year old girl many years ago, so it's tough to say what's considered "child porn" depending on where you are, too.
     
  17. monkjr

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    Exactly, well I was speaking from the legal perspective of someone from the USA. (Age is 18 here for any kind of porn production).

    And you're right about skype, but I don't know how did long distance couples do it in the past before IM chat services?

    1. Letters (there's still something sweet I find about writing letters)
    2. Phone calls without images


    It's tough...and to a point you have to conceed the government watching you, not much you can do about that. Still it'd be a scandal if someone's private intimate stuff was leaked publicly because of a government program like that and resulted in a person being barred from getting a job OR charged with a crime when those were private and consentual information.
     
  18. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Yeah, in the past there were phone calls(expensive!) and letters. Although, I think people still use these methods today. Letters are actually nice because you can save your SO's handwriting, and phone calls allow you to hear their voice. video letters can be nice too, because of the visual stuff.

    But you're right, it IS very tough to be in a long distance relationship(at least the actual geological challenge aspect of it, anyway). I guess it all comes down to whether or not you believe your partner is worth taking some of those risks for. And in my case, my partner is definitely worth the risks. Mind you, neither she nor I live in the States... lol :p
     
  19. monkjr

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    Well that's good for you, hopefully your countries laws are more updated to keep up with technology in regards to harmless consentual sexting between partners, than the USA's law is.

    Updating the laws here in the States would save so much in unnecessary time and tax $ prosecuting teenagers who aren't real dangers to society, but rather got outed by vindictive parents about their child's romantic interest, or just plain got hacked.

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    That's cool Alternative, I'm just saying my style is to request my partner have a stash of pics made IN-person before they leave to go far away.

    Phone sex is fine, but anything with images is a no-no for me. The risk is that you might have the freedom to actually see your partner in-person taken away from you if you get caught up in legal crap. That's not worth it in my view.

    This also protects against getting "catfished", because you know the person on the other line is REAL.
     
  20. nz male

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    The other day, I sent some txts to a female co worker I get on very well with & taught her some new words that were to do with pubic hair removal & she hadn't heard of the words before, so I had to give her some that she might have heard of instead & then she realised that some guys get their pubic hair removed as well.
    She's from an Asian country & they are not always that use to some sexual terms we use here. I asked her to teach me a few of her own languages slang words for body parts & other subjects as well. She never asked if I had ever had my pubes shaved / waxed at all.
     
  21. drumminmama

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    Ha! I've always suspected a strap on.


    Not really, I just couldn't pass up the joke.
    (((((WillyBlue))))))
     
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