Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Bert2011, Feb 19, 2011.

  1. Bert2011

    Bert2011 Visitor

    I see this sometimes on films and wonder why ?

    When they're being fucked, isn't that enough stimulation.

    I get the feeling - and I could be wrong here, so please correct me - that they're not enjoying the fucking part, so they stimulate their clits to make up for this.

    The other theory, is that they do this to keep their pussies wet, so that the sliding in and out of the penis is not painful. Why not use lubricant then ?

    Any answers ?
     
  2. daralicious

    daralicious Member

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    becuse it feels awsome , duh
     
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  3. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    just the wording of teh question tells me gasshopper will never know.


    Males and females travel at different speeds. Some work on our part gets everyone closer to the finish line together.
     
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  4. Bert2011

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    Thanks daralicious,

    I realize playing with your clit feels awesome.

    But I sense there's something else happening.

    1. They need to keep their pussy juices flowing or
    2. They need to get some pleasure to make up for the hard big cock fucking them.

    Do women normally play with their clits while being fucked ?

    BTW, I apologize for not being clear. This is porn, so I'm not sure if the women are enjoying the fucking experience. I also apologize for my language, it's easier to just tell it like it is rather than finding the appropriate wording.
     
  5. SweetBlasphemy

    SweetBlasphemy Senior Member

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    Some girls, myself included, can't get off with g-spot only stimulation. I can have a clit-only orgasm or a combo of clit and g-spot but never g-spot only. Unless I am in missionary or a position where my clit is grinding against his pelvis a certain way, I need a "hand" to get me off. In films though, I'm sure it's more for dramatic effect than anything ;)
     
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  6. Bert2011

    Bert2011 Visitor

    Drum, I don't understand your 1st sentence.
    Your 2nd one makes sense. Perhaps the woman wants to ensure she climaxes before the man, so she's not left wanting.

    BTW, I see that you're a Supermoderator. There were 2 threads of mine that were removed. ' Why women fold their legs ' and ' Penis Envy ' . It made me quite angry, because I try as much as possible to tell the truth and I detest it when people do not believe me, especially on a Free Speech Forum.
     
  7. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Could Be Because Most Men Wouldn't Know What A "Clit" Was, Let Alone Know

    Where To Find It..:eek: And If They Did, What To Do With It...:(.

    Unfortunatly This Means The Lady Has To Take Care Of Herself...:(.

    Sad State Of Affairs Really...:(.



    Cheers Glen.
     
  8. Bert2011

    Bert2011 Visitor

    Thanks SweetBlasphemy, I think you're on to something here.

    In films, the man does not get close to the woman (to kiss her etc). He keeps a distance so the film can capture his cock being rammed into her ****, so there's no grinding of his pelvis against her clit. Perhaps, that leaves her unfulfilled and also gives her the room to play with her clit.
     
  9. Bert2011

    Bert2011 Visitor

    Thanks Glen. See this is the power of brainstorming. Ideas pop out. Perhaps the woman has fucked so often in porn, that it doesn't turn her on anymore. So, she has to pleasure herself by playing with her clit.
     
  10. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    please free yourself from the illusion that women are necessarily enjoying themselves in porn. porn is fiction about sex, it is there primarily as an aid to masturbation for men. It is not a sex education film. the women who act in porn films are there to make money, and they do what they are told to do. what they do in porn films has very little to do what fulfills them and everything to do with the directions they are given, which are based on creating films that make money. you would be ill advised to make inferences about women's attitudes toward sex and preferences based on porn.
     
  11. TheMadcapSyd

    TheMadcapSyd Titanic's captain, yo!

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    Oh man, you don't get female anatomy that much.
     
  12. newbie-one

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    are you talking about me or the OP?

    I am well aware of the erotic powers of the clit,

    however, what I said about porn still stands. porn is there to fulfill the fantasies of the men who watch it, not to satisfy the desires of the actresses. the extent to which porn-style sex would actually be pleasing to women is primarily coincidental

    having said that, more women would probably play with their clits during sex if they were less sexually inhibited
     
  13. SweetBlasphemy

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    ^^^This. I was alluding to it when I said "it's thrown in for dramatic effect" but didn't feel like going into it. Thanks for elaborating, I agree 100% and it's a pretty important point in understanding sex IRL vs. the movies lol
     
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  15. TheWhiteOne216

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    I like movie sex not porn sex movie sex it always seems more intense then real sex. maybe thats just my imagination playing with it but yea.

    any who on topic they do it because it helps them cum and it feels amazing.
     
  16. vigilanteherbalist2

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    yet another man that has no clue about female anatomy and sexuality.
     
  17. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    I'm not sure how some people end up so ignorant about these things. Questions like this seem to betray a complete lack of sexual understanding, as if it's a question with an easy logical answer. In porn, women rub their clits because the audience is generally turned on by it; in real life, I suppose they do it because it feels good. But everyone has a bit of a different reason or feeling of when or why they'd do it. "Why do women do x, y, or z?" is a bad question.
     
  18. Bert2011

    Bert2011 Visitor

    Hello vigilanteherbalist2,

    If you're referring to me, then yes I admit I'm not an expert on female sexuality. I know a few things, but not everything, which is why I ask these questions.

    I see that women give the best answers. Some men just guess or think they know a lot, but frankly it's the female answers that seem to make the most sense and satiate my curiousity.

    BTW, it's not just for curiousity, but the next time I'm with a woman, I would know how to please her much better rather than being a clod who sticks his dick in and out and thinks that all that matters.
     
  19. Hippie McRaver

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    I think the clit is somewhere behind the knee, the left knee to be specific
     
  20. scratcho

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    I think this falls under-if a little is good-more is better.
     

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