can i make my girlfriend squirt/ if so how?

hey all,

being with my girlfriend for about a year now, we have a great sex life together and love her dearly, but would like to improve my oral. i am pretty good with my tongue and can make her climax, but would like to do it with fingers so i can make her squirt.

Is there any particular direction the fingers need to go to increase this?

and just another quick question she doesnt really cum during intercourse, she is more or a clitoral person ha. what is the best postion that would make her cum. and how would my penis enter her for example if i am going from behind would i just have a starigth forward in and out, or would i go sideways in, i think you get my drift

Feel free for all replies, but hopefully the women can give me some posotive feedback.

Thankyou you for your time

 

What I've seen (not achieved, unfortunately) of the "squirt" is the result of stimulating the g spot, pretty vigorously it seems, with your fingers.

Seems most people use more than 1 finger, sometimes 3 or more. Or a curved dildo ...

The woman is usually on her back, and the guy's hand is palm-up, with his fingers inside her making a continuous "come here" motion. This is stimulating the g spot (top front of vagina under the pubic bone), evidently, and the woman at orgasm squirts.

Sometimes I wonder if it's not just squirting urine from so much pressure being applied to the woman's bladder. But I've read time and again that female ejaculation is indeed real -- not urine.

I've tried it myself several times and have failed. I don't think all women are squirters, and maybe I'm just doing it wrong.

But it's always fun to try. Unless it causes discomfort, of course.

 

I've managed it with most women I have been with. I'm not exactly sure how, but if I am fingering them it is in the way described above, with two fingers in and sort of reaching for the girl's navel and stroking my fingers inside upwards in the come her motion.
simultaneious anal stimulation can help as well as rubbing the clit with your thumb at the same time and /or rubbing her stomach in arounf the smae place the tips of your fingers are inside. Some women just can't and never will squirt, but the ones who do certainly seem to cum harder.
I think the best advice is to sort of jjst "read" her as you are doing whatev er you are doing. Tune into her and just go with the flow. If you don't know how to do that, then practice practice practice!

 

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Usually a squirt is just water, thats what they do in the movies.

So if you believe a squirt its most likely just water.

I dont know whether a real squirt is possible even though my GF says she squirts.

 

4 fingers in palm up....come here come here motion with fingers...fast but not really fast.....like when you see someone across the room and motion ''come here''make sure your fingers make contact as they are bent back towards you....did that make sense?

 

you keep telling yourself that...

 

not all women can squirt, its a physiological phenomena... Women that can squirt have a gland that is accessible.

mostly the squirting is from massaging the g-spot specifically the woman releases extra pussy juices - the juice is a bit thinner than regular juices.

There used to be a great phone sex/cam girl (she only did can about once a month) who had a fantastic blog detailing her squirting abilities and even included interviews with her doctors from the NHS (she was a Brit) regarding - it was a great read. She retired a year or so ago. But she could squirt far and crazy-wide arching!

 

from a womans perspective--
my bf starts by slowly playing with my clit. As I get more turned on he will take one finger and slowly rub the outside of my pussy. This makes me get the "Oh god I'm gonna cum" feeling, but then he slows down to make that feeling last a really long time.

He then pushes two or three more fingers inside me and slowly strokes my gspot until it starts to swell. Then he does the "come here" motion while simultaneously sucking my clit. As my gspot gets more swollen and I get closer to climax, he switches from paying more attention to my clit to stroking my gspot more.
As my legs start to twitch because it feels so good he really gets after my gspot by doing the "come here" motion considerably harder.
Then he gently pushes on the outside of my lower stomach with his other hand to reach my gspot better. Then, after a few seconds of stroking my gspot I get the most intense orgasm ever and this sort of "release" and I look down and notice a big wet spot on the bed, as well as cum all over his arm.
And that's how it's done.

Basically, the longer you can make your woman feel like she's going to orgasm w/o actually doing it, the bigger orgasm she will have when she actually does. At least that's how it works for me.

Sorry so long, but I figured you guys wanted a womans perspective.

 

Youd be suprised how many camgirls can squit on cam. Heck I could do it too with all the tricks they that that I have learned from camming.. Most are fake.

As for you gf squiting.. some girls can sont cant, find the g-spot, rub it and then wait. Some females are able to some are not. It feels like she will have pee and most likely make herself stop. It comes from the pee hole too. Now dont get exciting.. if you;re basing squiting from porn.. its all liquid added before filming or actually pee - just looks whiter. So dont get too excited if your gf cant.

 

when you finger her go all the way in far as you can and then when you come back down slide your finger towards you against the outside wall of her pussy and vary the speeds

 

After reading that, I have cum all over my arm... Very hot!

 

buy her a new car

 

Ya! Haha! Your own!

If I didn't truly think you were a guy posing as a chick behind the cloak of the web it would have been pretty hot to read!

 

My partner does occasionally but it only seems to be after maybe the third orgasm and any after that. It tends to be built up in penetration, especially her on top, and then intensely rubbing cock on clit that does it. Alternatively a finger or two giving it 'come here' and a tongue on clit simultaneously can work too. Man what a mess. But it really isn't every time - just when we're really uninhibited and maybe kind of drunk.

 

Every woman is different there is no sure fired way...

 

If You Really Want To Make Her Squirt Bigtime, Go Down

To Your Nearest Toy Store And Buy Her A "Supa-Soaka"....

Watersports For The Win...:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

I can make my wife squirt almost everytime we make love. She squirted all over my belly last time! Fuck deep, intermixed with good oral, 2 fingers on the g-spot while tongue-mauling her clit to get her going. Then more deep fucking with her legs up by her head, gives the best g-spot contact. In this position she'll squirt on almost every withdrawal. Also rapid-fire sex in this position will produce a ball-splashing mess everytime, she loves it! We just figured this out after 30 years of bliss that I can make her cum like piss!!!

 

My girlfriend is a full blown squirter now! The first time she did was when I was eating her. No g-spot stimulation at all. Just my tongue working her clit for a long period of time. She said that right before she had the feeling like she had to pee, but it is not urine. Just a clear liquid that taste salty the first time and gets less salty the procedding times. After the first time she did it sort of opened a flood gate and now it is normal for her to squirt many times through the course of oral and sex. It can be a little messy in a good way. From what I have read it is not something all woman can do, but I am sure glad mine does, because it is quite an amazing thing to experiance!

 

You are a lucky man, enhancer. Now get out that scuba gear and go to work!