I'm a guy and I have been anal masturbating for a while. Don't tell me to go out and buy any toys.. I'm not going to. But I usually wear a glove and put one finger in. I use lube, and I just make it go in and out. I never really get an orgasm. And I am usually REALLY hot when I do it looking at porn or masturbating! What else should I do? I tried putting in two lubed fingers once, but it felt so tight and pressure so I stopped. How can I get an orgasm? Everyone tells me they are so amazing...
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That person is right. Buy toys online discreetly or find something in your home or in the store your can safely use. For me, using my finger is more interesting from the finger's perspective if you know what I mean, feeling the inside But to have an orgasm from that alone, you'll need something bigger and longer than you're finger, I'd say I can't put two fingers in my ass for some reason, but a toy that is bigger than two fingers goes in much easily It's the shape that is significant - two fingers is sort of awkward, but a dick shaped object should be rounded and will slide right in with enough lube I've found the key to have really explosive anal is finding something not too big but not too small, using lots of lube, having lots of patience, and slowly building up, not rushing anything. If you get a god sized whatever to put in, it will feel amazing, so much better than your finger, trust me. You will want to orgasm as soon as you put it in deep.
I've had Anal sex many times, including plenty of Anal Mastubation, but only a couple of partners have actually managed to find the 'Joy Spot' of the Prostate, triggering an Anal Orgasm, and even then, only from actual penile penetration - fingers or toys just don't do it for me. Similar to the comment about not being able to insert 2 fingers, I also find I can't get the larger of my Butt Plugs inserted, even though I've been penetrated by much larger penises with relative ease. Perhaps it's just a matter of the position you assume when being penetrated by a partner, compared to that you need to assume to penetrate yourself.
I'm a male and I have been experimenting with self anal Orgasim for quite sometime now and have it down pretty good. At least for me that is. First I start out by cleaning myself out using a enema (2X). I then insert a medium butt plug and leave it in until the urge to use the toilet. I then insert it again and repeat the first step except this time I baredown on the plug and force it out along with any excess fluid inside me. I then insert it a third time and sit down infront of the computer looking at porn and grinding my ass on the plug. This stimulates my prostate and causes some penile leakage. I then return to the toilet and bare down on the plug to force it out. I then use my hand to rub my anus and insert my fingers to stimulate my prostate until I can't take it any more. I then clean myself up and insert my normal sized dildo in my anus while standing up with one leg hiked up on the counter and proceed to give myself a ride. I then clean myself up and take my larger dildo and stick the suction cup on a sturdy plastic chair flipped over and attached to the back rest. I lube up and attack it on my knees doggie style and ride until I Orgasim anally and penile. What a ride and thoroughly exhausting.
Ive had a few during anal sex. If im turned on enough it can happen occaisonally ussuall in a missionary style position. Its usually pretty intense too. If a guy can just fuck me and make me cum all over myself he can get in my pants anytime he wants. Its probably more how turned on I am than anything theyre acyually doing tho.
Surprisingly, there aren't a lot of good online resources about prostate stimulation for men. There's a bunch of stuff over at Aneros, but the only reasonably comprehensive guide I know is the Guide to Prostate Sex. There's a good book, too, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, but you have to pay for that.
