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#1 Angelina31

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Posted August 26 2008 - 06:20 PM

I am probably going to get shit for this question, :p but I was wondering, guys & girls, what makes a girl good in bed?

My girlfriends and I will talk about a guy's performance, but we don't really chat about what makes a girl good in bed? My husband says I am good and he likes it when I am on top of him because 'I fuck him properly' and that I get into it and excite him and make the right movements to make him feel good, he likes when I dance for him. But he can't explain further. Can anyone tell me what they think makes a girl a good fuck? :)

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Posted August 26 2008 - 09:20 PM

What makes a girl good in bed? A few things. Don't just lay there. Move. Use your hands, you can hug, rub, scratch etc. Talk to him. I don't know a guy that doesn't like to hear his woman talk to dirty to him. Use discretion though. Saying "Pound me like the football team did in high school" might be a turn off. Every once in awhile give him a blowjob for no reason. Trust me, this means a lot to guys. If he resists, just push him back down. See the movie "White Castle" for reference. No, it's not a porno.

Othe than that there are no answers. Some people just turn you on more than others. Enjoy!

#3 LexLuv101

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Posted August 26 2008 - 10:47 PM

One, enthusiasm. If you're going down on a guy, act like you're into it and enjoy it. I DO enjoy it but make sure you do. Move during sex, don't just lay there as said before. Kiss with passion, don't be distracted. Enthusiasm really matters a lot. Also, take time to learn the partner's body, don't be afraid to experiment and keep your mind open.

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Posted August 26 2008 - 11:14 PM

[more for a couple than for a one night stand] communication/attentiveness, I say. everyone is different and likes different things, and what you've done with other people may not work with the current one. communication is rarely verbal in the bedroom. you need to watch for good and bad responses and adjust as needed. and don't be afraid to just plain ask - "what do you want me to do to you?", "do you like that?", etc. and try to pick up on those subtle hints dropped when someone wants something, but are too embarrassed to just say it (ie, anal play or watchin porn, etc). hmmm... most women are terrible at giving head, but don't know it.... oooo, and be creative and spontaneous too - nothing is better than a girl that can think of something new to try or do!

also, not only don't just lay there, but open you eyes every now and then - it makes a guy feel like you're not pretending he's a vibrator or another guy. look him in the eyes and SHOW him your passion. and never ever fake an orgasm.

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Posted August 27 2008 - 03:15 AM

I agree with classic...spontaneity for no reason. Just drop and please him, simply because you want to make him happy. Talk dirty to him during sex. Tell him what you like and how you like it. Tell him when he is doing something you like alot. Play with yourself while he fucks you. Enjoy it, and make him know you like it. Be eager for his cum, like you are opening a present. Give him a hand job while you are sitting on the sofa watching the news, or a movie. Be spontaneous. AND, tell him what you are going to do to him the next time you are together. He will think about it ALL FREAKIN" DAY LONG. Trust me. lol.

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Posted August 27 2008 - 03:49 AM

What makes a girl good in bed is her actually enjoying and wanting to have sex especially if she makes you feel like you had something to do with it.

If you are faking it or just going though the motions then I'd rather be somewhere else.

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Posted August 27 2008 - 06:54 AM

1)Responsiveness
2)Trying new , fun stuff
3)Talking about whats good and what isnt.
4)being tactile - there's foreplay for guys too.
5)learning taoist /tantric sex and stuff like that.
hmm other stuff , its hard to describe - that "spark" is a big part of it.

#8 Angelina31

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Posted August 28 2008 - 03:07 AM

Thanks for the tips guys, it is all helpful, although I like to think I already knew most of it :p;)

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Posted August 28 2008 - 04:16 AM

Some things I forgot.
1)watching where the guy is- is he warmed up?does he want to hold back or step it up a gear.
2)Also intensity is a big thing.There's looking at a guy and *looking* at him
3)How she breathes .Is it fake moaning , or is it "combined" with the guys?
Is she in control of her own pleasure with it
4)Stimulating a guy's whole body.Does she just pull his dick a bit and climb ontop?
Or does she stroke different parts to stimulate them-chest , balls , thighs, neck
- acupressure points etc
5)Setting the mood.

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Posted August 28 2008 - 04:31 AM

Some things I forgot.
1)watching where the guy is- is he warmed up?does he want to hold back or step it up a gear.
2)Also intensity is a big thing.There's looking at a guy and *looking* at him
3)How she breathes .Is it fake moaning , or is it "combined" with the guys?
Is she in control of her own pleasure with it
4)Stimulating a guy's whole body.Does she just pull his dick a bit and climb ontop?
Or does she stroke different parts to stimulate them-chest , balls , thighs, neck
- acupressure points etc
5)Setting the mood.


I think that, particularly, is really important. For both parties. And I love looking into his eyes intensely, and not being coy and embarrassed about eye contact, as it is one of the biggest turn-ons, in my opinion, when you are looking deep into each others' eyes while doing what you're doing..

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Posted August 28 2008 - 04:40 AM

See the movie "White Castle" for reference. No, it's not a porno.
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What movie is this that your talking about? I tried to look it up on Imdb and all I got was Harold and Kumar...

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#12 IamnotaMan I AM THOR

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Posted August 28 2008 - 05:40 AM

I think that, particularly, is really important. For both parties. And I love looking into his eyes intensely, and not being coy and embarrassed about eye contact, as it is one of the biggest turn-ons, in my opinion, when you are looking deep into each others' eyes while doing what you're doing..


Girls seem to instinctively explore acupressure and stuff more than us guys.I remember stumbling across points on the inner forearm of a girl one day along time ago- to me it was like revolutionary stuff.
I sort of stumbled on soulgazing round about the same time.
Do that and it can be hard to get someone out of your head!: )

A guy's sexual energy is harder to channel than a girls.I like girls who know how to move it around a guy's body , and between them.Its hard to explain if you haven't discovered the techniques and stuff.
But well worth learning ..! ; )

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Posted August 28 2008 - 06:20 PM

#1. Don't say, "Ewwww....that's SICK!!!" if he asks for something a bit out of the ordinary. (Of course, this doesn't apply if he's asking for something outright dangerous and/or illegal. I'm talking more about golden showers, foot licking, role playing , etc.)
#2. Don't bring up past lovers in any way, shape or form unless it is to say something like, "Mmmmm....Ohhhh...You're soooo much better than (fill in the name or names here) "
#3. Tickle his balls (if you can reach them) while in the missionary position.
#4. Tell him what pleases you BEFORE the act. Don't expect him to just 'know' these things. If, for example, you enjoy having your breasts sucked during missionary sex, your butthole fingered during doggy style, etc, TELL him this BEFORE you have sex w/ him. Of course, this 'rule' applies in the reverse as well; if you don't want him messing w/ your breasts or bunghole during sex, don't be afraid to bring it up as well.
Ladies, this last one is really the most important rule of all (in my opinion anyway...) Don't EXPECT us to 'just know' what you like; TELL us in advance. Us guys are pretty direct and up front in general. Just be honest w/ us about what gets you off. Trust me, it will make things easier on all parties concerned! :)

#14 Angelina31

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Posted August 28 2008 - 06:39 PM

Thanks John, good points about communicating :) You guys have been really helpful, cheers!

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Posted August 29 2008 - 02:07 AM

I'd say a girl who's goodwill stimulate all 5 sense:-
touch , sound , sight with taste , and smell to a lesser extent.
Someone who's good might stimulate mentally , technique-wise/ physically etc.
Then there's the "soul" aspect of it-like theyre really passionate about it , rather than them just "ticking boxes".

Finally , there's the X factor- to me , its when someone has some way of doing something that u never thought of ,or u never saw done in that way.That can be rare.

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Posted August 29 2008 - 02:11 AM

confidence and the right amount of excitment. You know if you can turn yourself on you can do anything
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Posted August 29 2008 - 07:01 PM

Willingness.....
to communicate
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to have fun
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Posted August 29 2008 - 10:58 PM

Confidence and enthusiasm

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Posted September 07 2008 - 07:30 AM

It is nice when a girl is comfortable with herself and feels sexy, it shows up in their performance. I dislike girls with too many boundaries like "none of this or that". Coordination is nice, I have had to tell a few girls to let me work because they just could not ride properly. If you ask me, women are the essence of sex and sexiness and rarely need much polishing to be good in bed.

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Posted September 07 2008 - 05:26 PM

^ Just thought that I'd add that I have a hard time riding because I have a bad knee. It does take practice.
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Posted September 07 2008 - 06:25 PM

^ I hope that I did not give the impression that I was insensitive to the above mentioned females. It only got bad enough for me to take over, not to end the session. Sorry to hear about your knee. I don't think I would enter that position if I was aware that my partner had a bad knee. If she does not ride perfectly I can live with the visual indulgence but if I begin to lose my erection its time to change up.

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Posted September 07 2008 - 06:30 PM

You didn't come across badly at all I was just sharing. I've riden horses for 16 years. I can do that, but my knee Kills sometimes. But I love sex that way.
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Posted September 07 2008 - 06:32 PM

enthusiasm! Theres only a few things a chik can do to actually make it feel better, but theres heaps of things she can do to make it more exciting, most of all tho the guy jus wants the girl to be enjoying herself coz pretty much if ive got my cock in thern im enjoying myself just fine

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Posted September 08 2008 - 07:10 AM

Be enthusiastic to please!

Be honest about what U like -and what U don't like to do!

Taking turns with your partner(s). Alternate being the giver/receiver!

Enjoy the process as much as (or without) the Orgasmhttp://www.hipforums.com/images/newsmilies/party.gif


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Posted December 28 2008 - 03:35 PM

I am probably going to get shit for this question, :p but I was wondering, guys & girls, what makes a girl good in bed? :)


From my vast experience, what makes a girl good in bed is how she uses the muscles in her vagina (kegel exercises?). The best sex I ever had was with a women who took me inside of her with her vagina by flexing the muscles there; inch, by inch, by inch, by inch, by inch, by inch... Once I was fully inside of her, she did all of the work (I was totally under her control and could do nothing). It was the best sex I ever had and the best orgasm ever. I would give anything to experience that again! God, I'm getting hard just thinking about it!
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Posted December 28 2008 - 03:45 PM

Hey thats only 6 inches...

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Posted December 28 2008 - 03:55 PM

Hey thats only 6 inches...


Good observation...I wondered if anyone would notice. My partner measured me once and told me it was the biggest she ever had. She told her girlfriends. How embarrassing!
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Posted December 28 2008 - 04:04 PM

Like I said hey thats Only 6 inches !!

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Posted December 28 2008 - 04:34 PM

Like I said hey thats Only 6 inches !!


I requested a new measurement; "upon further review - it is confimed - it's 8 inches!"
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Posted December 28 2008 - 06:42 PM

When a lady is into as much as I am or more so it makes a huge difference. Talk dirty, grind your hips, GET INTO IT! It's ok to be a freak in the bed and a lady in the streets.

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